All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again I've been tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter -Don Henley, The Heart Of The Matter
Teachers cause much of the misbehavior in their classrooms.
True, students come to class with behavior issues and personal agendas. Some are prone to misbehavior and are difficult to deal with. A few may even enjoy trying to disrupt your class.
But more often than not, the teacher is the problem.
If you were a fly on the wall of teachers who struggle with classroom management, you would find many commonalities. Among them are teacher behaviors that actually encourage students to misbehave.
Teaching is challenging enough. Putting yourself behind the eight ball by your own doing can make it unbearable.
Let There Be Light
The only classroom management-related problems that don’t have solutions are those we’re unaware of. Once illuminated, there is always a way to solve the problem or make it manageable.
In that spirit, the following list represents things teachers do unknowingly that encourage misbehavior.
1. Talking over students.
Talking over students breeds inattentiveness, side-talking, and poor listening. If your students have trouble following directions, this is often the culprit. The simple solution is to wait until you have the full attention of your class before speaking.
2. Rushing around.
Being in a hurry creates tension in the classroom, causing restlessness, excitability, and poor behavior. This common mistake is easily corrected by trimming the fat from your curriculum, being better prepared, and then slowing down.
3. Answering call-outs.
Answering students who don’t raise their hand encourages disrespect and communicates to your students that your classroom management plan is no longer valid. Condition yourself not to respond no matter who asks a question or how insightful it may be.
4. Moving on.
Continuing with lessons or instructions when students are inattentive–or worse–lets them know that less than their best is good enough. Wait until your students are giving you exactly what you want before moving on.
5. Negative thinking.
Negative thoughts about students always bubble to the surface–body language, tone of voice, sarcasm–causing resentment, misbehavior and, ultimately, revenge. Choose to see the best in your students… and that’s what they’ll give you.
6. Irritability.
Showing frustration, taking behavior personally, reacting emotionally. These self-sabotaging behaviors will weaken your influence and undermine your ability to control your classroom. Instead, keep your cool and lean heavily on your classroom management plan.
7. Clutter.
Classroom clutter shows a lack of pride that rubs off on students and leads to unwanted behavior–the broken windows theory at work. A pin-neat, attractive classroom, on the other hand, is congruent with, and transfers to, values like hard work, neatness, respect, and character.
8. Self-defeat.
Believing that students decide whether or not you have a good class is a belief that virtually eliminates the possibility of creating the teaching experience you really desire. The fact is, we create the class we want, not our students.
The Heart Of The Matter
These eight teacher behaviors cut straight to the heart of why so many teachers struggle with classroom management.
Rules and procedures. Incentives and consequences. They’re important, to be sure.
But they alone are not the answer.
You must get to the heart of the matter, which is deeper than stickers, strategies, charts, or time-outs. It’s more than outside circumstances. More than names on a roster.
The heart of the matter is you.
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I am studying to be an elementary school teacher and one of our assignments is to blog about our experiences along with asking other teachers questions. I have read some of your blogs and I am interested to know what you think about the book “Cooperative Discipline” by Linda Albert. That is, if you are familiar with it. I was wondering if you agree with some of the approaches.
In my classroom I have a student who tries to gain attention by acting out. I don’t think that what she is doing is for a power struggle, but more for attention. (I could be totally wrong though.) A few times she has been asked to stay in from recess (for about 10 minutes) as “punishment” for her behavior. She normally sharpens pencils or does stuff around the classroom to help our community. The only thing is is that she seems to enjoy doing these things. If she enjoys her “punishment” don’t you think it would encourage her to misbehave/treat her classmates disrespectfully? What would your recommendations be to giving her the attention she wants/needs while having her learn respect for her classmates/teachers/whomever?
Hi Samantha,
Sorry, I haven’t heard of the book. To answer your second question, I wrote about needing/giving attention in the article How To Stop Wasting Time And Attention On Difficult Students. I hope you’ll check it out. It should answer your questions. If you’re unsure of anything after reading the article, email me. I’m happy to help.
Michael
I find what you’re saying really useful. I think I’m guiltiest of Moving On. When the class falls silent about a particular piece of literature or a question I have prompted them with after I have rephrased it several ways, I do have a tendency to just feel defeated and give up. It’s definitely my weakness.
I’m not sure I agree with #3, though. I agree that we should try to maintain a respectful atmosphere by not allowing students to shout over one another or interrupt others, but I think “raise your hand” isn’t always the best policy. There are many times when I tell my students not to bother raising hands (though they often do anyway from habit). When we have class discussions, we are having a conversation. I think that sometimes hand raising becomes a show of teachers exerting their authority, and I think that sometimes students shout out of term because they feel that their teachers are ignoring them (and I’ve seen that actually be the case). Hand-raising only becomes necessary if conversation becomes heated and many voices want to speak at once. Of course, my students are college students, and the same self-control isn’t necessarily developed in younger students.
Great post Michael. I agree completely with all 8, even though I’m still working on improving on numbers 3 and 7. I think this is great advice that teachers, especially new teachers need to heed. I’ve made it my Power Post of the day. Thanks again.
Sam
SuccessInTheClassroom.com
Hi! I am an art teacher who blogs at The Art of Education. I was wondering if you have ever posted any content regarding managing specialist when you are a specialist, such as art, music, PE, etc? These areas have special dynamics that need special attention in our schools. Thanks so much!
Hi Jessica,
I haven’t yet written an article addressing the unique management challenges of art, music, and PE teachers, but I plan to in the future.
Michael
Another great post. This is a really interesting spin on the idea too! I think this checklist will prove very useful to lots of my colleagues.
I highlighted your post in my Daily Digest of Education related blogs today as I thought other teachers would find it of interest. You can see it here: http://ow.ly/3kr11
This is a great list, and I agree with 1, 2, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 but I disagree with #3 on the list.
It’s not the call-outs you have to ignore, it’s the people who speak out of turn. The point of the hand being raised used to be to establish the teacher as the firm authority in the room of whom could speak and when. In a constructivism classroom, with the teacher as a guide on the side, this authority also needs to be ceded to the greater moral authority, speak when it’s your turn to speak.
If you choose to let hands be the way that everyone knows whose turn it is to speak, then that’s fine but the teacher should raise their hands too… I think it’s more important that students learn about taking turns.
Nothing is more embarrassing to me than when I’m having a conversation with my friends and I feel compelled to raise my hand so everyone knows it’s my turn to speak next…
This post was extremely helpful…thanks Michael. I have had problems with classroom management and I’m working hard to increase my competency in it.
I have a question: Is it possible to make a classroom too exciting?
Hi Bryan,
Good question. Not if you have good classroom management skills. In fact, they go hand in hand. Good management ensures that your students don’t lose control, that they know how to have fun without going overboard. Exciting lessons and activities contribute to your leverage. When students like being in your classroom, classroom management is much easier.
Michael
I taught a math lesson today with number “4″ “Moving On” in mind. I stopped talking until I had everyone’s attention. Wouldn’t you know it, one of my defiant students, who had been less so lately, decided to challenge and wouldn’t NOT attend…in my opinion..on purpose. His classmates were getting verbally mad at him to the point that I became frustrated and finished the lesson. What do I do about students like that?
Hi Kathy,
Enforce a consequence. Check out the article A Classroom Management Plan That Works. He broke rule number 1. Also, you might want to read Why You Shouldn’t Care If A Student Misbehaves.
Michael
Great article. Unfortunately, I see myself in several of the items listed. I have been trying out your suggestions and they do work well. I must admit, the hardest one for me is not talking so much and explaining more than necessary. I will keep working on that.
Thanks for the constructive advice and concrete suggestions.
I actually come back and check this post occasionally, to measure myself in these areas. I would say that last year, I was guilty of all 8. During the summer (partly due to extenuating circumstances), I was guilty of #7. This fall, so far, I have been guilty of #3 very infrequently, and have managed to control #7 so it only happens on my desk (controlling all my papers is hard! But the rest of the room looks great). I must admit, I’m quite proud of my improvement
Thanks for the tips!
Way to go, Jessica!